I live in no-Muslim country, so I really want my children to be a good Muslim and practice in Islamic way of life. So, I have created some rules for myself and my children with hope that Allah will grant us taufig and successful in both Worlds.
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Rules of Our Family that “WE MUST FOLLOW AND NO EXCUSE.” If one of us doesn’t follow these rules, he/she will be punished. This is "DAILY ROUTINE!"
1. Perform Salaat 5 times daily.
2. The mother must study in Islamic way of life and teach the children in proper knowledge of Dunya and Islam.
3. The mother must train the children to practice in Islamic way of life. Children must listen to mother and father and practice a proper manner.
4. Read Quran and Taleem daily. The children must sit down and listen to the Quran and taleem properly.
5. Encourage children to follow Islamic way of life.
6. If the mother and the children want to go somewhere alone or with anyone, they must seek permission from the father. If he doesn’t allow, then no one can go.
7. Never let children go outside (even around condo) alone with anyone (including all relatives), without mother or father.
8. Never allow non-Islamic activities to practices at home such as sing a song listen to music, eat haraam food, backbiting, no non-Islamic talking.
9. The children must learn to help mother to do small housework, such as keeping toys in the box after playing.
10. After Isha Salaat, children must sleep immediately.
Note: Everybody must follow these rules strictly.
Saturday, August 11, 2007
Wednesday, August 8, 2007
Be Patient! Allah is with us....
No matter how much difficulty we are facing in this world, always keep in mind that "Be patient; Allah is with us."
All problems, difficulties, and hardships are from Allah Ta'ala that mean the solutions of all problems, difficulties, and hardships are also from Allah Ta'ala. Whenever we are in trouble, always seek help and guidance from Allah Ta'ala and never complaint.
We don't know what Allah Ta'ala prepares us in the hereafter, so we must try our best to please Allah Ta'ala. Just be patient and have a firm believe in Allah Ta'ala.
Whenever we have any difficulties, just perform 2 rakaats of Salatul Hayat and make dua.
All problems, difficulties, and hardships are from Allah Ta'ala that mean the solutions of all problems, difficulties, and hardships are also from Allah Ta'ala. Whenever we are in trouble, always seek help and guidance from Allah Ta'ala and never complaint.
We don't know what Allah Ta'ala prepares us in the hereafter, so we must try our best to please Allah Ta'ala. Just be patient and have a firm believe in Allah Ta'ala.
Whenever we have any difficulties, just perform 2 rakaats of Salatul Hayat and make dua.
Friday, July 27, 2007
Keep an eye on our children when they travel on the Internet.
As I live in non-Muslim country, it is very important to teach and protect my children from non-Islamic activities and environment even though it is very difficult.
Today, my sister came to visit me and she visited the website that is about sharing photos to every friends and people around the world. It was my first time to see this website because I only use my computer for working and learning about Islam. I was so worried about our Muslim children when I saw many Muslim teenagers posting their photos and sharing the photos and their opinions with anyone, and this activity is not permissible in Islam. Therefore, we should guide and keep an eye on our children when they are online.
Today, my sister came to visit me and she visited the website that is about sharing photos to every friends and people around the world. It was my first time to see this website because I only use my computer for working and learning about Islam. I was so worried about our Muslim children when I saw many Muslim teenagers posting their photos and sharing the photos and their opinions with anyone, and this activity is not permissible in Islam. Therefore, we should guide and keep an eye on our children when they are online.
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